There’s something in it for us, as well

Okay seriously, several times I’ve heard that “some asexuals are in polyamorous relationships so the sexual partner can have other partners to express eir sexual needs with”. This sounds like you have to be sexual to get anything out of polyamory, and it also sounds like there’s always someone who benefits more when it comes to polyamorous lifestyles.

Argh! I don’t even know what to say. Just stop, okay?